The evidence of everything that is pointed out about you is you pal, all of you. Hence, your examples are going to drive this chapter. Ignorance is not bliss, it is awful, let us unpack.
To lie
Again, sitting at cafe Masa Mamita, this time just listening.
The table next to me a 54-year-old woman and a maybe 35-year-old man are talking. He is giving most of the advice.
The narrator wonders, do you tell people you live in integrity matey? Do you think you add value to this world?
Having said that, you were right though, to participate in human society one has to lie, change themselves to be something they are not for others, to be anything but themselves.
Friend, you are right, the man sitting next to you all by himself is absolute evidence of this, absolute evidence. He does not lie, he lives in integrity, and he is as alone as fuck. You are right.
BUT, mate, that man lives in integrity, has the most phenomenally free life, projects nothing but him to this world. He is living him, therefore living, are you?
Now, pal, do you say I am good, I am pursuing truth, I want peace, or any other I am which is positive?
How? Just how, mate? When your actual advice which you consciously give is full of snot? When you are telling people to lie? When you are effectively telling others not to live in integrity, that you do not live in integrity?
Are you arguing with me mate? Anyone arguing with me?
Wake up pathetic imbecile, or, clearly, do the other best thing you can do, probably the best thing you can do ….