We need to talk Melrose High School, what is happening in your walls is affecting those closest to me, the young people in my space. It is affecting other young people, it is not necessarily coming from your walls at all.
Boys, men, we need to talk. Schools, we need to talk about boys and men. We need to talk!
She is not allowed in
It is not Melrose High, the problem here. They are part of the problem, sure, but they are a massive force in the solution.
This school, the girls love it, mostly. Attended Entertainment Night the other day and it was so so so great!
The teachers pick up when there are sudden changes in the behaviour of their students and they talk to the student.
How much different things may have been for my family were this the case in my day, or, more correctly, were it the case when it comes to boys.
After Entertainment Night (ET), we are all going to Tharwa to drop the girls off at school camp. They got a late invite and were really excited to go, especially as they didn’t have to miss ET.
Ains and Em are sitting in the back of the car, full of beans. Then, Emily starts talking, she is relaying messages from one of her best friends.
I cannot believe what is happening here, it is so stupid.
All the camp is gathered in the boy’s area, they are sitting and just hanging out. And Denny is telling everyone that I am not allowed to come in, making everyone vote to let me in or not.
Denny is the ex-boyfriend. Emily’s first boyfriend. Emily’s first boyfriend who is going to be the example for all future boyfriends. Hopefully she learns what she needs, this is the worst I will ever do, and then some.
I’m not allowed in.
The smile wasn’t what it was when we entered the car, the head was no longer held straight up. She was being isolated, separated, segregated from her peers. Being punished for saying no to him, and will continue to be so until she says yes.
Okay, do we understand what is going on here? This boy is 15, these perpetrator behaviours are already dominating his life, what is happening at home for this kid? Just what?
This is what abusers do: isolate, separate, segregate. This example, at this age is the worst of the worst, it is coming from his home environment, this is what Denny is really learning at home.
It is such a lucky thing they are not adults, that he cannot stick her in a car or bus and fuck off to the other side of the country too. It won’t be soon, a lucky thing for someone, it will absolutely happen, another woman and family will be the victims of shit he is the victim of.
This is what Fred did, Frederick’s dad, took Monika and company a long long LONG way away from everybody, and, the outcome my friends? It is all here to show through a life of horribly painful experience.
So Melrose High, but not just you buds, all schools, we need to talk.
Please, we really really need to talk.
Men
Fred is not a man, not by any stretch, identifies as a man but is nothing of the expectations and stories we tell ourselves. Man is the most disgustingly weak cowardly thing in this world.
All it has is violence, not even aggression, just violence. It is the only tool for it to get its point across, most of that violence rooted in ignorance without physicality, the other some includes the physicality. However, it all includes the physicality.
It is pathetic what man thinks strong is.
Most, almost all of you pathetic twats, Fred will not raise a hand in defence, will absolutely let you run through him. Firstly, he’ll tell you that no hands will be raised, you will punching into nothing but an inert bag of meat.
I know you don’t know what inert means, words are not your strong point man, putting together intelligble intelligent sentences the bottom of your toolbox. Inert means motionless, without resistance, completely powerless.
The only thing you will walk away from this thing knowing is the coward you are. You will know that a better men, fucking significantly better man stood in front of you just now, until he dead not. The kind of man your wife/girlfriend/partner/interest should be fucking, and fucking putting you to shame in the process of doing so.
Not a wasted joule on you. Pathetic twats.
However, were you someone like Donald Trump and came at Fred, the most disgustingly cowardly of all the disgusting cowards called man, the story would be different.
On Donald’s way in to Fred, Fred will tell him the intended outcome, and if you know Fred, have seen his physique, have witnessed what he can do with it, the intended outcome you will know is but moments away.
This shit is not a who has the bigger dick contest for Fred. Were it so statistically he will almost certainly beat you there too. Your wife will now be fucking someone worth fucking with something that isn’t the pinnest of dicks fucking her. Her fanny fucked feeling will remain for days good buddies, everytime she sits down she will still feel Freds fucking her. Yours, what three minutes after it is gone, fucking tiny tooled Tims.
Donald, within moments would lose his neck, Fred would have already warned him, I’m going to break your neck mate, do it properly, so properly you never take another breath on this earth. Never infect another soul with your coward ignorant priviliged fucking snot.
If you are fighting for any other reason than to make the world a better place the outcomes only have the Trump intentions above, nothing else. Everything else is coward bullshit, you are too much of a weak piece of shit to be with the rubbish inside your body so you attempt to force and control everyone and thing around you. There is nothing more cowardly than this men.
Nothing at all.