Choosing a provider for the medicine or spiritual pathway is an extremely difficult thing, particularly given how many are doing this stuff poorly. Together, let us chat about these things and what to look for when either picking or passing on a provider.
The Narcissist
The most dominant provider type is the narcissist, they are everywhere. The biggest problem with the narcissist is they have no capacity for empathy, compassion, listening, support, care, love, reflection. A narcissist will never ever see themselves, it is the common symptom, they live 100% in ego.
The example coming up is the pinnacle example of the narcissism motivation, you’ll recognise much in others, hopefully you will first recognise it in yourselves. The truth is we are all narcissists, all have the inability to see in our selves that which we don’t want to look at, that which is destroying our worlds and making them unsafe, that which we will pick out in others.
Narcissist prototype has already been introduced in The basics and really we will expand slowly as we go, in every heading. Then even narcissists may be able to admit they are this thing, do something about it, add value to the world for the first time.
So, the narcissist is the parent heading, the others provider types the story to explain it. Of course there will also be examples of those doing their thing sin narcissism, for these guys there is very little critics just beautiful modelling and examples for the world to pursue.
One tip, the words that confirm beyond any doubt that thing sitting in front of you is a narcissist and not a psychologist; or psychiatrist, counsellor, healer, support, medicine provider, person sitting over the other side to you.
I fix/heal people; I fixed her/him/it; You come to me and I’ll fix you.