Sex, just super duper fantastic, Fred has been having some, is looking forward to a whole lot more.
It is kind of surprising it has taken this long to get to the subject, suppose not getting any is good reason for not writing about it.
Sex starts well before the bedroom, it starts with listening. Even the one night stand can be a great thing if you listen in the moments leading up to it.
Just because that person you are talking about seems bubbly, outgoing and potentially they may be a livewire in bed it is not the case, listening is much more subtle than what someone initially presents. It is their words, the conversation, the way they present and project themselves when they express that matters.
In the expression confusion or clarity can be heard, a bubble personality in confusion will lack confidence in the bedroom. When you get there you will understand, slow it down, see if you can work them up to the thing they are pretending to be.
Listening builds trust, trust creates tension, the best type of tension. The type of tension that often leads to explosions.